Being the work
After hearing friends recommend The Body Magician for a while, the most recent time Joyce Ong mentioned Bruce Scott‘s name, my body gave a little nod of encouragement so I booked a session with him for yesterday evening.
BLOGS
I write regularly. In my writing I explore a range of topics like Identity, Perspective, Transformation, Conscious Authentic Relating. Writing is a tool for me to observe finer distinctions within these realms, which then supports me in my speaking, training, and coaching.
Most of my writing is done right here though you can see an anthology of my published works and how you can purchase them on this page.
“I absolutely love your writing! I feel such resonance in your words because you write from your heart. It's real and a perspective not often publicly shared... I really appreciate that. I always look forward to your posts and I savour them.”
- Louise Vella
"Your authenticity and willingness to seek to arrive at what I see as mature, generous perspectives is a breath of fresh air. It's nice to have someone write about these topics, give a voice to them, normalise them, and seek to make sense of them (and not overanalyse them either)."
- Tim Longhurst
"When I read your writing I feel a sense of acceptance and possibility. It helps remind me how we each perceive things differently and since we're each on our own journeys growing and evolving, we can deepen in love. It's very special."
- Brett Hunt
How Self Doubt Serves Us
So I just got off Life Labs (the weekly group coaching calls we offer as part of Your Success Code) and today's theme was around self doubt. More precisely, the importance of it. And here are some key takeaways from the call, which I thought were so important I wanted to share them with you.
Do You Have Bad Days?
I got an email from a friend recently that started with “From your posts you look like you’re doing well ~ although like the rest of us I’m sure there have been good and bad days.”
I have to admit something and I feel a bit nervous to confess this…
How I Avoided PTSD
I didn’t want post traumatic stress, so I gave myself post traumatic growth instead. Here’s how:
Needs for Physical Touch
Yesterday someone who is like a brother to me hung up on me.
It was right after I said “get this: did you know I can put myself into orgasm just by stroking my third eye a few times? How cool is that!”
The Mastery of Balancing Desire and Discipline
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on discipline. Specifically that I don’t utilise it often, so it’s a fairly weak mental “muscle” for me.
Those I’ve discussed this with in my contemplation have found that surprising. Apparently I come across as very disciplined based on the quantity and quality of the outcomes I create. But I would contend that isn’t actually discipline. That’s desire. And desire is different from discipline because it’s what we WANT to do, not what we HAVE to do.
